My Sex Life, My Business!

Sex is a gift from God, sacred, holy and meant for the enjoyment of married couples alone. Now, every couple wants to be sexually satisfied by their partner which is not a bad thing, it is how the body is made and sexual urges were given to us by God Himself, so there is nothing to be ashamed or afraid of.

It is very fulfilling when we are sexually satisfied, beautiful, precious and very spiritual; every experience should be kept private. No matter how close a person is to you, do not let down your guard and start telling them about your sex life, describing how it started to the point of orgasm. You might ask; can I just give my best friend a modicum on how my spouse satisfies me in bed? The answer is No; however general statements like; I have a good sex life or I do enjoy sex, may not necessarily pose any threat to your marriage but still possible.

First of all, the human mind is not only deep but very graphic and broad, so when you go ahead to tell a friend innocently about how good your spouse is in bed and how you groan and moan and do all those fun stuff to sexually satisfy yourselves, and perhaps this person receives this information just as innocently and jokingly like you are telling them, but what happens next? What exactly do you want them to do with this information?

 Because of the ability of the human mind to develop graphics, it begins to imagine those things you have fed it, then goes a step further to paint pictures of sexual scenarios from those raw information, guess what; the desire of experiencing that same pleasure you have told them about begins to arouse and with no other person but your spouse. Don’t be deceived, being holy and spiritual doesn't mean the mind cannot become carnal when you immerse yourself to sensual appetite and passion (Read Gal. 5:17). At this point you would have only succeeded in creating a loop hole in your marriage and if you don’t find a way to seal it, there would be a lot of temptations to overcome.

   

Secondly, when you fill your friend’s head with how sexually satisfying your spouse can be, their favorite positions and how they love to be held, touched and make you melt when they caress you; you have not only violated your spouse’s privacy but trust has been broken because these details are meant for you both, not for a third party. Also there is 90% chance that the next time this friend of yours or whoever it is you have discussed this with sees your spouse, those images you have helped them paint in their heads awakens with raging passion, they begin to see him/her in a sexual manner, possibly undressing them in their hearts, and climaxing just at the sound of ''hello''. 

So, now I ask; where do you think this may possibly lead to? Oh and God help you if this person have been sex starved and now left with this burning desire and on the other hand your amazing spouse isn’t that much of a Godly character.

   

Sharing your sexual experience devalues your intimacy, it diminishes its uniqueness and simply makes it a common experience whereas it is supposed to be special on all level and for you and your spouse to reminisce on and cherish every bit. 

Keep your sex life to yourself, if peradventure your sex life is the other way around, talk to a professional counselor/therapist for help.

I hope to do a video on this soon, keep watch guys; Live, Love, Laugh and Enjoy SEX!